Keynote or talk
A focused talk for conferences, luncheons, classes, services and special events.
SPEAKING & EVENTS
Book Ari
to speak.
Ari talks about what abuse looks like from the inside, why it’s so hard to see, and how to leave safely when the danger is highest.
She speaks as a survivor and as the author of a practical guide, for audiences of people who may be living with abuse and the people who want to help them.
TALKS
Topics.
When the dam breaks
Ari’s story, and how abuse hides in plain sight until the pieces start to fit together.
Naming coercive control
The patterns behind abuse that leaves no bruises, and the words that make them visible.
The most dangerous time
Why leaving is risky, and how to plan an exit when a controlling partner realizes you’re going.
How to help someone you’re worried about
For friends, family, faith leaders and coworkers: what to say, what not to say, and how to stay close.
FORMATS
In person or online.
Workshop
More time for examples, questions and practical planning.
Panel or conversation
A moderated discussion or fireside chat, with other speakers or on its own.
Podcast or interview
Audio, video and print interviews about the book and the issues behind it.
Reading or book event
Readings, Q&A and signings. As a professional singer, Ari can also talk with you about adding music.
Virtual
Any of these formats, online.
AUDIENCES
- Domestic violence organizations
- Shelters & advocates
- Churches & faith groups
- Colleges & student groups
- Women’s groups
- LGBTQ+ centers
- Libraries & book clubs
- Podcasts & media
- Workplaces
SPEAKING INQUIRY
Tell Ari about your event.
Ari will reply with availability, format ideas and next steps.
- Fees are quoted per event, based on format, length and travel. There’s no public fee list.
- In person or online. Ari speaks virtually, and travels by arrangement.
- Shaped for your group. Each talk is tailored to your audience, your goal and your time.
- Privacy. Ari writes and appears using a pseudonym for her safety. Some events may need simple privacy arrangements, which you can work out together.
Online inquiries open soon.
For now, you can reach Ari through her Substack.
Contact Ari on Substack