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The book is for people living with abuse. The Substack is for the people around them.
Friends, family, coworkers, neighbors, and men who want to be part of the change. Ari writes about what abuse looks like from the outside, why it’s so easy to miss, and how to help.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS, YEAR-ROUND
Domestic Violence Awareness Month comes every October. The Substack keeps the conversation going the other eleven months.
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